Starting Over Again

 

I am back here after two years.

A lot has changed. Thinking about writing diary from last so many days but then I decided to resume my daily blog which off course will remain private to write my feeling and whatever I am planning and executing for the day.

Yes I have changed. The biggest learning that I have learned in my life is that nothing is constant; change is the only constant in life.

Keeping all the incidents and events in life till now, I can say that there is a certain pattern in my life and it will continue to repeat until I learn what life wants me to learn. Only then my life will be aligned to the purpose that I have in this journey.

I have learned:

­   Never invest your emotions in wrong people, they will break you in pieces and it will take years to put yourself together.

­   Be wise in investing your time, emotions and money.

­   Your mental health is your responsibility, take good care of it, and remove anything which threatens it, no explanation required.

­  Past is past, it cannot be undone. Do not ruin present because of what happened in the past. Stop taking revenge from your loved ones for the wrong that happened to you. People who love you they want to see you grow and happy, so self pity is not required.

­  Miracles do happen; never stop believing in what you desire.

­  Only we are responsible for changing our life, people can support us but at last we need to stand on our own.

­  Feeling emotions is not a bad thing, but it should be in balance with practicality.

­  No matter what right decisions should be taken timely.

­  Love about to give love only but person should be deserving.

­  Understanding is the key of true love. People can have their own definition of love based on what matters to them and what are their experiences. If you find your soul mate, never stop working for each other.

­  Be aware about what you feel, why are you feeling in such way and have respect towards your emotions and feelings but actions should be taken on the bases of balanced approach keeping practicality also in mind.

My perception towards everything has changed. I  feel blessed to be able to have strength and support to plan my life ahead.My present will be based on the learnings of my life not on the pain of past.

 

I believe in myself and I am committed to make life of my dreams. 

 

This birthday I am going to gift myself the change that is required to the beginning of the quality of life that I want. 

Foundation of every love starts from self care and self love. If one is not comfortable in her own life she can never love anyone, she will be a dependent only. I want to be strong and emotionally fulfilled in my own life so that I will be able to give and receive love in a meaningful manner.

 

I will keep writing my thoughts daily as writing is the best way to vent out what is going on in my mind. Sharing is what I need and it will serve the purpose.